Monthly Archives: March 2011

Girl Scout Night at Disney On Ice: A Double Daughter Date

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And who did we get to see?  Buzz and Woody and all the gang from Toy Story 3!


As you can see the girls had fun! Daddy Dearest and Mommy did too, even if our wallets were considerably lighter leaving the show.  :)

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Missing the Merry-Go-Round

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Ever since one of the Girl Scout moms and I had a conversation about parks the other day, I have been nostalgic.

I have been taking the kids to the park more since the weather is warming up. Something I haven’t been able to do in the past because I worked and when I was first staying at home, Dominik was too little.

Anyway, we were talking about how we missed the things that made the park fun for us as kids. The silly little animals on springs that you could get and ‘ride’, the creaky old merry-go-round, the swing sets…..

If that last one surprised you, it sure did me too.  They have done extensive remodeling on our parks in my town over the last few years and apparently not only did we lose merry-go-rounds and monkey bar domes, but swing sets didn’t make the cut either.

So the the remodel of the park across the street took us from a full playground with several areas and things to play on down to three things. A sand volleyball area, a soccer field and what as kids we called a ‘big toy’.

The big toy has three slides and is similar to the picture above though much taller.  It has one tire swing off to the side and that is it.

My kids go to the park and after 30 minutes they are done.  Why? Because we have a small version of the big toy in our backyard.  And….at least ours has swings attached and sand to play in.

If there aren’t many other kids there when we are, there is nothing to do, you can’t play soccer or sand volleyball with a mom, a 4 yr old and an 8 yr old.

It makes me sad that they won’t have memories of climbing the pole to ring the bell, riding the silly bear with the circus hat trying to get the nose to touch the ground or having swinging contests to see who can get the highest.

The worst is the feeling that my kids will not know the camaraderie and excitement of getting a whole bunch of kids on the merry-go-round and taking turns spinning it.

Ten of you holding on for your dear lives with one leg down, all pushing off like we were rowing a boat…faster and faster.

Or the satisfaction of talking a ‘big kid’ into spinning you as fast as they can and you hold on as tight as you can, feeling like you were going to throw up and loving every second of it.  

Don’t be surprised if you see a post this summer that we are installing a merry-go-round in our backyard, lol.  Never put anything past me.

Fabulous Food Fridays: Sweet & Spicy Sweet Potatoes

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    Another yummy sweet potato recipe. 
    Fabulous Food Fridays: Sweet & Spicy Sweet Potatoes
    Ingredients:


    2 large sweet potatoes

    1 tsp paprika

    1/4 tsp black pepper

    1/4 tsp onion powder

    1/4 tsp dried thyme

    1/4 tsp dried rosemary

    1/4 tsp garlic powder

    1/8 tsp cayenne pepper 

    2 teaspoons olive oil 

Preheat oven to 350 degrees F.
In a small bowl, stir together paprika, black pepper, onion powder, thyme, rosemary, garlic powder, and cayenne pepper.
Place sweet potatoes on a baking sheet, or in a casserole dish. Add olive oil and seasoning mix and stir until the sweet potatoes are coated.
Bake in preheated oven until tender, or about 45 min. Makes 4 1/2 cup servings

Number of Servings: 4

Move Outta the Way You Jackwagon!

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I left my house for approximately 30 minutes this morning to grab a few things and in that short time was assaulted by the rudeness of people on the road.  I traveled just over 5 miles and in that time I was cut off once and blocked by stupid people three times.   
What is wrong with people? Where did common courtesy go? Even common sense?!? Most of all, how come this many people in my community are like this? 
I don’t live in a huge town and I know a lot of the people.  I am starting to miss the days before we had a Kohl’s, a Target, a Hy-vee and a Home Depot. 
Don’t get me wrong, I really like that I don’t have to leave my town for almost anything I need.  However, the influx of shoppers and new residents is actually amazingly annoying. How’s that for alliteration? LOL
The first person that annoyed me blocked me from turning right.  The light was red so he sat there and sat there and sat there.  Um, did someone suddenly change the rules of the road? Right on red is always okay if there isnt a sign saying otherwise. 
Usually people like this don’t get in my way for long because the light changes fairly quickly and I roll my eyes and move on.  This happened to be the one light in the entire town that is actually busy enough that the right turn light is green only like once a decade.  So after 7 minutes and much honking (not from me, pat on the back, I held in my road rage, I really have no where to be at any time so no reason to be the jackwagon in the situation) the car finally got the point and turned.  
The second person cut me off without a turn signal on in the middle of an intersection.  Really?  Completely unnecessary.  There was no one in his lane and he didn’t apparently need to turn in anywhere.  He just felt that he needed to be in front of me.
The third person was another gem.  She apparently was told to pull up in the drive thru line at a popular fast-food restaurant.  I received my Coke and Latte as that was all I was there for, but I could not go anywhere because she pulled up just the length of her car.  I gave her the benefit of the doubt because she was throwing trash out and waited for her to finish and move on.  She pulled up maybe 3 more feet and parked the car.  I waited a few minutes, got the point and went around her.  Then the bitch honked at me and flipped me off.  At lunchtime, at this restaurant with 20 people in line behind us, I was the bad person because I went around her.  What a Jackwagon! People like her just need to be shot. Rude, just rude. 
And yes you are seeing by now that the majority of my trip time is caused by the stupidity of others.
Then on my very irritated way home I got blocked by one more person.  One of those people who can’t read the ‘Don’t block intersection’ sign, he sat for 4 minutes blocking that intersection. 
I just wanted to go home.   
This is why I don’t go anywhere; this is why I hate running errands. 
Learn some manners, use your blinkers, hands off the horn and for christ’s sake, let people merge in every once and awhile.  
What driving offenses drive you nuts?

Ch-ch-ch-ch-changes

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Amidst the upheaval that the RSV virus has thrown our way, our household has been preparing for some big changes.  We found out two weeks ago that my fiancee’s company was letting him go.  It was not something we saw coming and we were completely unprepared.  We have been trying to refinance our house and have been using every spare dime to clean up our credit. Well that idea has been squashed.
I will admit when he told me, my heart fell out of my chest.  I could not keep back the tears which I knew made him feel worse.  Not that I even remotely like the company he worked for, they are terrible. I worked there for 8 years and management treated me horribly.  I miss my friends from there but that’s about it. However, losing the only steady income we have is earth-shaking.
What will we do to pay the mortgage? The utility bills? Car insurance? Oh hell, what will we do about medical insurance? We have a premie son; every cold ends up with us in the doctor’s office if not urgent care or the emergency room.  How will we buy food? We barely make enough to keep the cupboards stocked right now.
After an afternoon of freaking-the-f-out we decided to take this head on.  Jason updated his resume, we posted it on Monster and Careerbuilder, and I started sending his resume in for jobs while he worked during the day.  Can I pause here and mention how excruciating that ‘final two weeks’ is for not only the worker but their family! I could not stand that evil company stealing him for one more minute, since they had thrown us to the sharks yet again. (my leaving the company was based on not only my son being born prematurely but also the amount of offenses racked up by the management, my boss was just a really awful person)(oh and should I mention she is now the site director? WTF?) 
So far in three weeks the only bites we had were from commission only sales positions.  You know, the ones where they slap their logo on you and you hope you can sell some insurance and have a paycheck? No bueno. And not for us.  Well more specifically not for him, he is not a salesperson, it’s not his niche. I have spent hours each day writing cover letters, emailing resumes and faxing over answers to questions but no success.  So we had to talk, if there was going to be a few months of this then we had to have an ‘ in-the-meantime plan or our family would crash and burn. We would lose the house and most likely become swamped by medical bills.
Now the day has come, his last day at work. We are celebrating. We have a plan and tomorrow it goes into motion. Tomorrow Jason is taking his shot at becoming a professional poker player. For those of you that don’t know, he supplements his 9-5 income by playing poker part-time.  He’s pretty damn good too.  He has funded many home improvement projects, bought my engagement ring and since I have stayed at home, he has brought in enough to make our lifestyle comfortable. Maybe a real 9-5 opportunity we can’t pass up will pop up and maybe not.  But we will be going full steam ahead with poker as if there is no other option.
I am also taking on new opportunities too.  I was freelancing for awhile when I was on bedrest and I am taking jobs again.  Having Jason home will give me time to work when he isn’t working, so I can actually contribute.  I have already got a few jobs, one long-term one, so that is going great already. We are looking at this unfornate event as an amazing opportunity to follow our dreams of working from home.  Wish us luck!

Fabulous Food Fridays: Crockpot Chicken with Black Beans and Corn

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Ok, this week has been hellacious for me….I have a houseful of children that have RSV including my tiny premie son who can barely breath from all the mucus.  We have now had two trips to the doctor and an emergency room visit under our belts all within the days of a St. Patrick’s Day prep, parade and party for the Girl Scout troop I lead and my first week of the 100 Days til Summer Challenge with the Rants from Mommyland folks.  So it goes without saying, this week has left completely exhausted and overwhelmed.  I did manage to pull the quickest recipe together one night out of stuff I had in the cupboard (which isn’t amounting to much…I really need to get the store!)

Crockpot Chicken with Black Beans and Corn

4 boneless, skinless chicken breasts
1 package of frozen corn
1 can of black beans
1 can of cream of chicken soup
cayenne pepper, to taste
chili powder, to taste
pepper, to taste
salt, to taste
sour cream, to taste
shredded cheese, to taste – we used our fave, Colby Jack

Pour package of corn, can of beans, cream of chicken soup and 3 soup cans full of water into the crockpot and turn to High – 6 hours. Once the soup seems to blend and the mixture starts to warm add chicken breasts (we left them whole, but the way I served them we could have sliced them up also). I then added cayenne pepper, chili powder, salt and pepper to give it a spicy southwestern taste.

6 hours later, we sliced up chicken on our plates, spooned black beans and corn on top and then added shredded cheese and a dollop of sour cream.  It was heavenly and took me about 10 minutes total to make!

Stodgy Is Sexy

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When I first entertained the thought to write a post for “Stodgy is Sexy”, I was a little hung up on the word ‘stodgy.’  I’m not stodgy am I?  And I’m not in many senses of the word, but one thing I am is old-fashioned.  I’m also conservative, not in the right wing political kind of way (exhale my liberal friends), but in a financial, material and taking risks way.

The more I thought about it, the more I liked the concept.  In the last few years, Jason and I have gotten back to more traditional roles.  I stay at home with the kids; he works hard to bring home the bacon.
I make every effort to cook from scratch, in an effort to both save money and insure that our kids our eating healthy. I don’t want ingredients that have been sprayed with pesticides or injected hormones; I’d like to grow more myself and I would very honestly love to have the milkman be a commonplace thing again.  We try to make as much as possible ourselves; building, creating, using the items we have or that we can get cheaper in an unfinished, pure form.

Hell, I would love to don a dress and heels à la June Cleaver and wear a flowery apron everyday (which just in case you are wondering, I am working on sewing for myself right now!) You just save so much money by making your own curtains, bookshelves, costumes, dresses, etc. You also feel so much accomplishment when you finish and every time you look at that object.

I feel that I was raised in a society that championed bigger, better, easier, quicker and it took us away from the things that really matter. We began to look at boredom and boring as horribly bad things that we should avoid and numb away by using our Blackberries and googling our questions and having a GPS unit tell us how to get there.  We forgot that we need those times of boredom for reflection,for innovation, for accomplishment.  When you look at it that way Stodgy is Sexy, extremely sexy.

The Stodgy is Sexy movement embodies a time when common sense mattered and so did face time with your significant other, your children, your extended family.  Things moved a bit slower, things were a bit simpler and there was much more pride is what you created and accomplished rather than how much money you made and what awesome new gadget you bought it with.

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Fabulous Food Fridays: Creamy Potato Soup

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I have given this out to my friends before but I know you all want to try it, right?
 

Creamy Potato Soup

Ingredients -

10 Potatoes, diced – I used large Idaho potatoes

2 cans Cream of Celery Soup

1/2 large Onion (quartered and thinly sliced) – I did not use these bc Jason hates onions, I subbed in Onion Powder, about 2 tsp

4 to 6 slices Bacon (fried and cut up)

2 cup Hot Milk

1/4 stick Butter

Pepper, to taste

Salt, to taste – I used Sea Salt

Ground Thyme, to taste

Celery Salt, to taste

I also added in Rosemary, Basil and Oregano

I put corn in there too bc Jason loves it

Preparation:

Place diced potatoes in pot; add only enough cold water to cover; cook on low until soft; remove from heat but do not drain. Fry bacon; drain but retain drippings. Saute onion in butter (since I did not add onions I added the butter, corn and cream of celery soup to the potatoes at this point); add cut up bacon, seasonings (and strained bacon drippings for flavor if desired); simmer. (To retain creamy white soup color, do not let mixture turn brown or burn). Slightly mash cooked potatoes; add onion mixture; combine milk with soup then add to potatoes. Simmer for 1/2 to 1 hour or until soup is mushy and potatoes are soft. Stir often. (Sprinkle with flour if too thin; add more milk if too thick). Serve with hard bread.

I served it with corn bread and it was heavenly!